Ever walk into, or by, a space and find yourself instantly crabby or irritated? The piles of paper on the kitchen table or the umpteen pairs of shoes jumbled on the mud room floor turns us into the Wicked Witch of the West begging to release the flying monkeys on those that created it.
Mine is dirty dishes in the sink when I come home from work. My kids have learned that they had better load the dishwasher before I get home or things go downill from there! I've even come in the back door and heard them furiously loading the dirty dishes because they saw me pulling in to the driveway.
We call spaces that set us on edge "hot spots", and every home has them - unless you live alone and are perfectly happy with things as they are. How do we change a hot spot into a non-irritating, organized space? First we identify the spot - it took me several weeks to figure out why I was so crabby some nights. Once I realized it I enlisted my family's help in solving it. Often the hot spots affect us subconciously - we're so used to seeing the clutter we don't realize the weight it holds over us.
When you know what your, or your living companion's, hot spot is, have a conversation about what can be done to improve it. Small, incremental steps are key to tackling any organizational project vs ripping everything out like a tazmanian devil and being too overwhelmed to finish it.
Good luck - and watch out for those flying monkeys!
P.S. Got a hot spot dilemma? Post a comment below and we'll solve it together.
These past few months I've been surrounded by inspiring, reliable, hard working, detailed oriented, creative women helping provide eco-friendly cleaning for the Bemidji area. Unfortunately for us, working with We Love Messes was a summer gig for some of them - the classroom and their students are their true calling.
Please indulge me while I give them a shout out, and a huge THANK YOU! Lisa M not only got married this summer (so is no longer Lisa M but Lisa G) but is working with the MN Reading Corp program at Central Elementary. Lisa O (the "other Lisa" as she is sometimes affectionately referred to) returns to the Blackduck School District, as does our Justine. And Krista returns to her dance studio, Fusion Dance and Fitness Center, where her students await her.
Each one of these women have an incredible gift for imparting knowledge in a caring way to their students. If you are a parent with one (or more) of these ladies in your child's life consider yourself, and your child, very lucky!
Ladies - Lisa M, Lisa O, Justine and Krista - I humbly thank you for your rockstar performances this summer, and look forward to having you back next summer!
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Tammy Schotzko is a Certified Professional Organizer who